The Politics of Abstinence

The New York Times has a somewhat grudging editorial this morning about research that came out a week ago showing that some abstinence-only programs are more effective at delaying sexual activity. The University of Pennsylvania study has gotten high marks from groups like the National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy, which doesn’t have a dog in the abstinence-only vs. comprehensive fight except to support whatever works. It’s also uncovered some false assumptions made by both critics and supporters of abstinence-only, and maybe even opened up a possible area of agreement in the ongoing sex-ed wars.

There are two significant aspects of the programs that helped teens delay sex the longest in the UPenn study: 1) they encourage kids to delay sex until they’re ready to handle it–not necessarily until marriage; and 2) they don’t denigrate contraception or disseminate false information about the effectiveness of birth control. Those are no small differences from some of the abstinence-only programs out there.

But what’s struck me in the reaction to the UPenn study–particularly among critics of abstinence-only–is how surprised many people seem to be that even-handed abstinence programs exist. The Washington Post’s story on the research noted that:

Several critics of an abstinence-only approach said that the curriculum tested did not represent most abstinence programs. It did not take a moralistic tone, as many abstinence programs do. Most notably, the sessions encouraged children to delay sex until they are ready, not necessarily until married; did not portray sex outside marriage as never appropriate; and did not disparage condoms.

Others, like Dan Savage, now seem to be trying to re-define “abstinence-only” to only refer to programs that tell kids to wait until marriage before having sex. To be fair, that was one of the points in the Bush administration’s definition of programs that could qualify for federal funding. But it’s not at all clear that “most” abstinence programs use such a strict interpretation of abstinence. I spent a lot of time last year looking through binders of abstinence-only and comprehensive sex-ed curricula–I found plenty of abstinence-only programs that used a much more moderate standard than no-sex-until-marriage, and plenty of comprehensive programs that were far from comprehensive.

The real scandal is how many bad sex-ed programs exist, regardless of approach. Perhaps the best change the Obama administration implemented in this area was the requirement that funded programs “have been proven through rigorous evaluation to delay sexual activity, increase contraceptive use (without increasing sexual activity), or reduce teenage pregnancy.”

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  • rustyreturns

    I’m surprised you are not making more noise about the Tim Tebow ad during the Super Bowl Amy. What happened?

  • deconstructiva

    Thanks, Amy. Maybe the non-judgmental problems work best. There’s already enough peer and media pressure on them to behave certain ways (good and bad).

  • stuartzechman

    I see.
    .
    The goal of sex education is to prevent teens from having sex.

  • nflfoghorn

    Exactly what you conservs wanted to happen: You got more bark than bite. The commercial was far tamer than what knee-jerk responses from NOW et.al. led folks to believe — darn near inocuous [sp?]. FOF got way more pub than it deserved. Proof positive that people shouldn’t make judgments on anything until you’ve SEEN/HEARD/READ IT FIRST.

  • freeinpa

    As one goal- yes. The probability of error (pregnancy) is much less if you do not have sex.

  • nflfoghorn

    I see it as more like “here are the consequences based on if you do or if you don’t.”

  • formerlyjames

    The issue is religion. A rational approach to sex education including abstinence content is not the issue. Discussion and views are poisoned by the religious, moral injection. Abstinence is not an unreasonable approach, it’s just not the only only one, as religious zealots would insist because the bible, the torah, and the koran tell us so.

  • nflfoghorn

    As a die-hard Seminole that was hard to write :)

  • nflfoghorn

    FJ, don’t hate the game, hate the players. I don’t see anywhere in the Bible, for example, that says it’s wrong to have sex. Closest it comes is Paul talking about his desire for others to live like he did: single…otherwise go ahead and marry. Our educated selves should be willing, regardless of faith, to encourage kids to make correct decisions on their own.

  • rose83

    Is there anyone who disagrees with telling teenagers to wait until they’re ready to have sex? I mean, except people who think sex should only happen within a marriage.
    .
    Unlike Amy I haven’t spent time looking into this, but I highly doubt any sex-ed programs use a “Ready or not, you need to have sex when you’re 16″ approach.

  • formerlyjames

    nfl, thanks. I didn’t mean to limit my comment to the great good books, but should have noted the players as you properly point out, and their dogma. The guilt trips they want to lay on teens, or adults for that matter, are not effective, is more of what I wanted to say.

  • destor23

    My issue with this is that I think the government should be morally neutral about whether people choose to have sex or not.

  • piper1

    Well, since what is being described here is NOT an abstinence-ONLY program, I’m not sure what the abstinence-only folks have to crow about. The liberal position on sex education is that teenagers should be taught the facts, armed with information, and encouraged to delay sexual activity until they are emotionally ready.

    This report seems to confirm that tthis approach is more effective than the moral-scolding absolutism of abstinence-only “education.”

  • kevpvp

    I think the issue is not that they say, “Hey, you should start having sex right now.” Rather, they focus discussions on how to have sex safely (condoms, etc) and more or less ignore discussions around making the decision of whether or not they are ready to have sex.

  • dollared

    Shorter Amy: a realistic program that recommends abstinence among several other options, and that the Bush Administration would never have supported and funded, works pretty well.

    So: 1) I was right to shill for all that ineffective fundamentalist BS that Bush spent billion$ on, paying off his friends, and 2) all those other programs that DON”T emphasize abstinence, but work really, really well on preventing teenage pregnancy and disease, are bad, just like I said before.

    Nice trick. How do you feel about all those thousands of girls that got unnecessarily pregnant – or got STDs – after getting the Bush BS in school?

  • freeinpa

    “I’m not sure what the abstinence-only folks have to crow about.”

    ==
    That it is the only 100% effective method to prevent pregnancy and STDs. Everything is just liberal rationalization

  • http://forgottenlord.livejournal.com forgottenlord

    Ok….if that’s abstience-only….what’s comprehensive? I must be missing the distinction here.

  • afguy

    That it is the only 100% effective method to prevent pregnancy and STDs. Everything is just liberal rationalization
    .
    Agreed, free. And the only way to prevent yourself from getting in a car wreck is to stay out of cars.
    .
    Now, having said that, let’s enter the real world.
    .
    Most of us have to drive and, because of a lack of emotional maturity and a feeling of “I’m invincible”, these kids, from both liberal and conservative families, are going to have sex, either from peer pressure, rebound from failed relationships, or whatever. I know of 3 from where I go to church who belong to very conservative families. One had a full scholarship to medical school but came up pregnant right after breaking up with her long-time boy-friend. If anyone had the background to “just say no”, she did. What she didn’t have was the willpower to overcome an emotional landslide at 19.
    .
    I’m not upset with this young lady because she “broke the pledge”. I’m upset because, instead of her fulfilling her promise to become a Dr., she’s now at home dealing with a newborn. The scholarship is gone. Her future is somewhat limited.
    .
    I am for abstinence because of the consequences of pregnancy but am also a realist in that, by itself, I don’t think it works for a great number.
    .
    I think they need the information.

  • kbanginmotown

    Amen! …oops ….I mean: Hear, Hear!!

  • nflfoghorn

    Gotcha. If abstinence was such an easily achievable goal SP wouldn’t be a granma now would she?

  • tjoyce994

    “That it is the only 100% effective method to prevent pregnancy and STDs. Everything is just liberal rationalization.”
    -
    And it worked so well for Bristol Palin, she is going to try it again.

  • http://forgottenlord.livejournal.com forgottenlord

    If you don’t mind, when you quote others, could you put it in quotes?

  • apr2563

    free, personal question. Were you a virgin when you married? I grew up in the repressive 50s. Believe me virgins were hard to come by, male or female. What there were was a lot of unintended preganancies. People married to legitimize those pregnancies and so it goes.

  • apr2563

    And, Amy include those poor unfortunates in Africa during the Bush era that were kept from assistance in education on aids if they supported abortion rights or condom distribution.

  • afguy

    Sorry, the italics at the top of my post were exactly that. A quote of freeinpa.
    .
    And my post was supposed to be under his.

  • freeinpa

    “And it worked so well for Bristol Palin, she is going to try it again.”

    I strongly suggest you look up the definition of the word abstinence.

    ==
    “What there were was a lot of unintended preganancies.”

    And what do we have now? Plus, for good measure there is now rampant STDs and deadly AIDs

  • cfukara

    OK, Amy.

    Ahem.
    Why is it that the beasties are not hampered, as far as we know, by a lack of sex education in their sordid lives? [Damn those weirdos who do unnatural cross breeding on dogs and cows to get grotesque chimera that cannot survive in the wild!]

    Would the human species survive without sex-ed? I wonder how our Neanderthal ancestors survived and in fact begat “rustyreturns” without IT! [Can it be that the unlikely sordid existence of poor old rusty is good reason why the ancestors should have had some sex education - instead of just winging it in the darkness?]

  • freeinpa

    “going to have sex, either from peer pressure, rebound from failed relationships, or whatever”

    From what you list here I am unclear how “they need the information” will make any difference. I know many folks here believe that by handing them condoms it is ok. And they will do it anyway mentally is just a rationalization for not having to accept responsibility.

    Another issue that is similar is teenage drinking. In schools we give them movies of car accidents and demonstrations of wrecked cars and yet binge drinking is on the rise. Why? For similar reasons as teen pregnancy parents have abdicated responsibility (Another plus of the Government Nanny state). They believe the kids have the information and will make the right decision. It doesn’t happen.

    We license drivers, real estate agent and stock brokers, maybe we should license parents.

  • textee

    When will the New York Times, Time magazine and other members of pagan left, atheist left, feminist left, homosexualist left, tree hugger left, etc., keep themselves and their religious cult out of the bedrooms of other people’s children?

  • cfukara

    ” .. When will the … left, etc., keep themselves and their religious cult out of the bedrooms of other people’s children? ..”

    When?
    * Perhaps when no more wingnut of the elephantine brand are left trudging anywhere?
    * Perhaps when big wingnut militant christianists like freeinpa stop begetting children and indoctrinating them (in their bedrooms and tree nests) into small right-wing, militant christianists?

  • afguy

    free,
    .
    Thanks for the reply. The girl I’m thinking of could, in no way, be described as promiscuous. What she did in response to the pregnancy took a lot of courage – she didn’t go out and marry the father as a reflex and so set up a possible divorce later on (even though that’s sorta what her family would have liked to happen). And, to his credit, he’s staying involved. But, his future has been impacted too.
    .
    When I was growing up, every red-blooded male knew how to get condoms – they were in vending machines at nearly every gas station. Someone above stated that there were a lot of pregnancies in the ’50s – I KNOW there were in the ’60s. And, at that time, staying in school and being pregnant were mutually-exclusive situations.
    .
    Kentucky has an epidemic of teen pregnancies. Many get married and pregnant right out of HS. It’s almost as if they are looking for some stability and security and marriage fills that bill. The economy is scaring the kids to death. No jobs available when they get out of HS and precious few summer jobs open.

  • afguy

    Sorry about the out-of-place posting. Logging in kicks me back to the root of the discussion, rather than to the reply to link I just clicked on.
    .
    I don’t always catch it.

  • octolegs

    dear free,

    I do not understand how you believe that abstinence is a 100% effective method to preventing pregnancy and STDs. Abstinence does not acount for human nature. As human beings, people are biologically programmed to want to have sex once puberty hits, and since people are marrying at much older ages than they used to, waiting until marriage seems ridiculous. People are going to have sex no matter how many god-fearing conservatives harp against it. Telling teens not to have sex is going to make them want to do it more, and only teaching abstinence and not other effective methods of birth control is going to increase teen pregnancy, as seen by the idiocy of the Bush administration. Teens need to be well informed regarding all methods of birth control and the emotional/physical repercussions of yielding to sexual pressures at an early age. Also, sex is still treated like such taboo in this country that teens are less likely to engage in discussion about it with anyone but their piers, thus increasing the risk of unsafe sexual activity. If sex were looked at by society as a natural part of life and enjoyable, then it would be easier for teens to become informed and be/feel safe.

  • apr2563

    It depends what is is. Talk to kids today and find out what defines abstinence and celebacy.

  • apr2563

    free in order to qualify for a parental license to I have to subscripe to the rest of your pollitical agenda. Did Sarah need a license. She has a child who had a baby out of wedlock and children who seem unmotivated to graduate from high school.
    Lord, you are judgemental.

  • apr2563

    Ugh textee, who would want to be in your bedroom.

  • apr2563

    There are more out of wedlock births by whites in red states than blue. There are more divorces. Is that the real America?

  • afguy

    Talk to kids today and find out what defines abstinence and celebacy.
    .
    Aye, there’s the rub…
    .
    I imagine you might find that they consider ANYTHING that would not result in pregnancy as celibacy or abstinence.
    .
    Unfortunately, once you release those hormones and emotions, what inhibitions that remain quickly fall away. And I think you will find that NONE of those who got pregnant went into the situation expecting that things would get out of hand.

  • afguy

    There are more out of wedlock births by whites in red states than blue. There are more divorces. Is that the real America?
    .
    More than we might care to admit to ourselves, apr2536.

  • apr2563

    The nuns and priests taught me real good.
    If you had to sit on a boy’s lap, put down a newspaper first.
    Girls have to resist temptation because boys are weak. Girls must be strong.
    French kissing is a grevious sin.
    Pregnancy requires the baby be adopted out or the couple marry. Of course never to be divorced.
    Be sure and have a short engagement. Sex may entice you before marriage.
    Girls must dress modestly. No sleevess or short dresses.
    My parents were very clear about my remaining virginal.
    Guess what I did when I went away to college.
    All the suppresive theocracy fell to the wayside when this certain guy entered my life. Unfortunately, I was of the generation that didn’t have birth control pills and little sex education. Oh, I learned how bees pollinated flowers. And then I learned from experience.
    My point is a little knowledge isn’t always good. A lot is better.

  • deconstructiva

    And I think you will find that NONE of those who got pregnant went into the situation expecting that things would get out of hand.
    .
    …which gives the classic phrase “a bird in the hand is worth more than two in the bush” a whole new meaning (or is that one in the bush?).

  • afguy

    What’s that old saying… the really good things in life are either illegal, immoral, or fattening.

  • http://promacassar.wordpress.com promacassar

    “That it is the only 100% effective method to prevent pregnancy and STDs. Everything is just liberal rationalization.”

    free – liberals and conservatives (and even centrists) know that abstinence is the only 100% method. We (and I’m including you, free) also know that people will have sex with each other. The question is – do we teach our children how to protect themselves against pregnancy/STDs if they do not choose abstinence or not..

    I am, btw, in favor of the abstinence until you’re really ready approach – along with teaching about birth control and safe(r) sex.

  • sacredh

    Sex is such a beautiful experience. It’s even better if you have a partner.

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