Teddy’s Goodbye

Senator Edward M. Kennedy’s funeral at Boston’s Mission Church was a sumptuous affair with incense and tears, communion and Yo-Yo Ma, Placido Domingo and laughter. And a presidential eulogy. The coffin came late and the church sat in reverent silence waiting for Teddy’s arrival. “He would’ve adored it,” said historian Dorris Kearns Goodwin. “You would have heard him bellowing at the end, ‘YAY’” she added pumping her small fist.

John Podesta cried during Ted Kennedy Jr.’s remembrance – as did most of the 1,450 people in attendance. The son recalled, his voice breaking, how, after losing his leg to cancer at the age of 12, he fell in the snow that winter. His father picked him up, “in his big, warm embrace,” and comforted his son. “I can’t do it,” the boy wailed. But he did, together father and son climbed the hill. Kennedy “had such a big heart and they expressed that,” Podesta said. “It was lovely and befitting.”

Republicans mingled with Democrats as most – if not all – of the Senate attended, even Roland Burris. “It was very powerful and beautiful, especially the speeches of the two sons,” said Senator Richard Lugar, an Indiana Republican. “Clearly partisanship is very aside today.” Will Kennedy’s death soften Lugar on health care? “Today is a day to set aside our usual work, important as it is,” Lugar said, pausing. He said he listened carefully to the “testimony of Teddy’s loved ones and participants and they made a compelling case for health care on his behalf.”

Indeed, Teddy Kennedy III read a prayer for the faithful that reminded the audience of his grandfather’s promise last summer to “guarantee that every American — north, south, east, west, young, old — will have decent, quality health care as a fundamental right and not a privilege.”

His father Ted Jr. started his speech on a lighter note recalling little known facts about his dad (he was once recruited by the Green Bay Packers), family vacations (left us all injured and exhausted) and political lessons (he taught me many things, even how to like Republicans) before reminding the audience that his father’s work was not yet complete. “Though he live a full and complete life by any measure the fact is he wasn’t done. He had more to finish,” and then, rushing through the words before he lost his composure, he quoted his father’s 1980 presidential concession speech. “For all those whose cares have been our concern, the work goes on, the cause endures, the hope still lives, and the dream shall never die.”

President Obama hailed his former mentor as the “soul of the Democratic Party.” But the most poignant moment of the eulogy came at the end, where talking about how Kennedy wrote every 9/11 widow in his state every year, Obama quoted one of them.

To one widow, he wrote the following:

“As you know so well, the passage of time never really heals the tragic memory of such a great loss, but we carry on, because we have to, because our loved one would want us to, and because there is still light to guide us in the world from the love they gave us.”

We carry on.

Ted Kennedy has gone home now, guided by his faith and by the light of those he has loved and lost.  At last he is with them once more, leaving those of us who grieve his passing with the memories he gave, the good he did, the dream he kept alive, and a single, enduring image – the image of a man on a boat; white mane tousled; smiling broadly as he sails into the wind, ready for what storms may come, carrying on toward some new and wondrous place just beyond the horizon.  May God Bless Ted Kennedy, and may he rest in eternal peace.

Milling out, Senator Max Baucus couldn’t help recalling Kennedy’s pen pal relationship with the Montana Senator’s mother. Kennedy called late one night looking for Baucus and Baucus’s mother answered. An instant friendship sprang up between the two and for years afterward Kennedy would show Baucus letters he was writing to Baucus’ mother. Kennedy even sent Ma Baucus an oil painting of a young Teddy riding a bronco in Montana during the 1960 campaign – a painting that still hangs in Mrs. Baucus’ living room. “It was typical Ted,” Baucus said, smiling and shaking his head.

Will Kennedy’s death affect the health care talks? “I sure hope so,” Baucus said, looking like a man in dire need of a stiff drink. “I’ll use anything, take anything I can get because we need it.”

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  • rustyreturns

    Very nice Eulogy, Jay Newon-Small. You almost made me a believer.

    I will simply leave it at that.

  • kathy

    Very nice funeral, and a nice summary Jay. While it is true I’ve been an admirer of Ted Kennedy, I’ve been struck by how many people, through the whole political spectrum, from all walks of life, have testified to this man’s many kindnesses and how quick he was to give them. It has been humbling to realize that I’m not nearly so quick to call or write when a friend of mine is hurting, and I’m a lot less busy and have a lot fewer friends. He led a full life.

    Thanks for telling us the Ma Baucus bit. I’ll have to think long and hard before I say I’m too busy to reach out to someone. But he seemed to do this not out of a sense of duty so much as deep and genuine compassion on the one hand, and great joy in life and people on the other hand.

  • Exiled_At_Home (formerly Neo)

    JNS
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    Entirely too many typos. Other than that, though, an interesting summary.

  • stuartzechman

    Jay Newton-Small:
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    As a non-fan of Ted Kennedy, I was interested in your piece. Thanks for covering this event so well.

  • http://www.twitter.com/jnsmall Jay Newton-Small

    exiled: I was one hand typing as I ran to the plane. Just landed and am fixing them now.

  • destor23

    Guys, can we lighten up on the typos stuff? It’s a blog. It isn’t copy-edited. I can take a few typos in exchange for some immediacy or even some raw reaction to events. I’d also much rather see JNS answering more substantive criticisms in the comments rather than telling us that she was hurrying somewhere while typing.

  • pafro

    I’m sure the baggers are mad because Teddy had the nerve to politicize his own funeral with that letter stating he wanted real health care reform and it was the goal of his life. I had a lot of tears welling up today. Didn’t get much else done.

  • Tom in The Swamp

    I can’t put up with all the religious foofraw, so what little television I did watch today was the last half-hour or so of the 1959 Peter Sellers movie, “I’m All Right, Jack”.

    It remains even 50 years later a fine commentary on the corruption of capitalism and the political systems that prop it up, right down to the seminal slogan of Republicans and Blue Dog Democrats alike, “Blow you, Jack, I’ve got mine!”

    That’s a sentiment antithetical to Ted Kennedy, but as natural as breathing to nearly all of his colleagues.

  • Exiled_At_Home (formerly Neo)

    My apologies, Destor, but I disagree. When you are a journalist or a professional writer in any capacity, it should be essential that what you post/publish for a global audience meets certain standards. A simple cursory review will suffice. I wouldn’t be one to criticize a comma mistake or two on a blog, however, when words are misspelled or altogether misused it is a sign of unprofessionalism. Online blog or not, this is a profession. It should be engaged with the utmost precision and care. And, I cannot help that JNS chose to respond to me rather than simply edit her post and respond to more substantive commentary.

  • FlownOver

    Typos are tolerable. There’s a difference, though, between hitting the wrong key and misusing the language. The latter, by a professional journalist, is like a doctor looking for metatarsals around the rib cage.

  • Exiled_At_Home (formerly Neo)

    Tolerable? Yes. Desirable? No. I merely pointed out the mistakes so that JNS may correct them. I know if I had published something online with my actual name attached to it I would appreciate having my mistakes pointed out so that I may make expeditious corrections. That’s just me, though. I did not point this out to JNS as criticism, but more as a helpful illumination in the event that she failed to notice her errors.

  • spob

    You know what—hell with it–the world is a better place for him having left it:
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    http://article.nationalreview.com/?q=YzMyNTgxMmExNzBiOTMzZWY2YjZmZTQ1MjZkZmQ2MDY=&w=MQ==

  • stuartzechman

    I’ve got to go with destor23 on this one.
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    There’s much more substantial criticism to be made than replicating professional look n’ feel.
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    If she didn’t go back and correct, that would be one thing, but it’s taken care of eventually.
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    If access journalists gave us one hundred typos per attributed source, I’d be ecstatic.
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    As it is, the Washington Post interviews anonymous Cheney sympathizers, uncritically transcribes their telling of Cheney’s version of events –just in time for Cheney to go on the Sunday talk shows and say “Well, George, as it has been reported in major newspapers, Saddam has reconstituted his…err…I mean the harsh interrogation techniques saved American lives.“– and does it all with no typos.
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    Which would we prefer, if given a choice?
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    The best of all worlds would be perfectly readable copy of perfectly transparent adversarial reporting and analysis of government officials’ statements and accounts.
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    Watch the Sunday bobbleheads tomorrow if you need to verify that we do not live in the best of all worlds.

  • pafro

    Is your real name Mike Huckabee?

  • Exiled_At_Home (formerly Neo)

    Spob
    ~
    That’s f*cked. While, of course, the Chappaquiddick incident reveals a major character flaw on the part of Kennedy, callous cowardice, how can you honestly say that essentially warrants his death? Had he brutally raped and killed someone, I would be inclined to agree with you, however he did no such thing. Fearful for his reputation and his privileged status he chose cowardice as a means of protection. Was he right? Of course not. Were his actions that night and subsequent to it honorable? Certainly not. However, he did pursue many humane endeavors over the course of his career. South African apartheid and the Troubles of Northern Ireland alone nullify your assertion that the world is better place without him.

  • destor23

    @Exiled — no offense, of course. Thanks for the polite disagreement. :)

  • Exiled_At_Home (formerly Neo)

    Certainly. It was a rather trivial matter, so anything less than polite disagreement would be wholly inappropriate. Cheers.

  • pflatley

    Great writing, Jay. Love the Ma Baucus bit.

  • omgamike

    I read the article and chose to ignore the typos. I was more impressed by the images put forth for everyone of a man. A human being. He made mistakes during his life, as do all of us. But, if you look at the totality of his life, you come out impressed with him. He did a lot of good in his life, far outweighing his human frailities.

    It is apparent that I am nowhere near as smart as most of you. I look at these comments from those on the right as out of place. A ceremony held to honor a man’s life is neither left nor right. Eulogies are meant to highlight the good parts of a man’s life, not emphasize his weaknesses. Nor are they meant to be a place or time where you criticize a man’s politics. That time is past for him.

  • spob

    Exiled, a statement that the world is a better place without someone is NOT a statement that his crimes warranted death. And I don’t see how Kennedy really affected the situation in South Africa all that much, nor did he seem to be that indispensable in Northern Ireland
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    But Chappaquiddick is not this guy’s only issue. Let’s not forget his own buddy, Ed Klein, and a journo to boot, said that he used to joke about Chappaquiddick. He also tried to collaborate with Yuri Andropov to undermine Reagan (and help his own political ambitions). And there is the spectacle of his lecturing Alito on morality and his unprincipled smear of Judge Bork.
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    Chappaquiddick is not just problematic because Kennedy didn’t lift a finger to save this woman (who survived for hours, by the way), but also because of the favoritism shown Kennedy. He never paid the price for his crime, and yet felt the need to lecture everyone else on morality.

  • 53_3

    Exiled:
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    If you remind yourself that there is not six degrees of separation between the likes of spob and Al-Queda, you will realize that non of this is a surprise.
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    I’ve seen it all before, just prior to the Oklahoma city bombing…

  • 53_3

    “Is your real name Mike Huckabee?”
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    No. spob’s real name is Timothy McVeigh, Jr.
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    He’s the b@stard son of good ol’ Tim. You know. Yeah. That guy. I think it’s because dear old Timmy, bless his terrorist heart, had six with a woman who was half Black and didn’t want to acknowledge it.
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    It’s okay though, his spawn learned well…

  • freeinpa

    Television will go overboard on covering Ronald Reagan’s funeral events, say Dan Rather of CBS and Tom Brokaw of NBC. ABC’s Peter Jennings isn’t so sure.

    “They will be overcovered,” Rather says. “Even though everybody is respectful and wants to pay homage to the president, life goes on. There is other news, like the reality of Iraq. It got very short shrift this weekend.”

    This sums up how the media covers politics in this country. But there is no bias

  • Exiled_At_Home (formerly Neo)

    Exiled, a statement that the world is a better place without someone is NOT a statement that his crimes warranted death.
    A slight distinction.
    ~
    Overall, I agree with your assessment of Kennedy’s partisan stratagems. However, he is hardly the first morally and politically duplicitous elected official. The overwhelming majority of America’s national politicians are morally and ethically bankrupt, including the vast majority of both Republicans and Democrats. This is not to say that the world would be better without them or even that they do not have a history of pursuing justice on occasion. Few have a legacy that is either wholly negative or wholly positive. Kennedy’s domestic smear tactics were appalling, as was his privileged status that apparently, I presume, led to his superiority complex. However, I must disagree with your assertions as to his relevance on international affairs. He was truly indispensable with regard to ending the Northern Ireland conflict. He was a staunch voice for the oppressed and he, more than any other US politician, pressured the British government relentlessly. He did not succumb to fickle idea of allies first, in that regard. Britain was clearly in the wrong, the belligerent party, the obstacle to peace. Kennedy realized this and played vital role in bringing the parties to the table. While he has a lasting legacy with regard to South Africa, Chile, and Vietnam as well, it is unfortunate that he did not apply his rationality with regard to the Troubles of N. Ireland to the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, voting a 100% approval rating by AIPAC.
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    Clearly, as with most, his career record is ambiguous, simultaneously blemished and admirable.

  • sacredh

    I’m taking a break from the Swamp folks. It’s been fun. Adios.

  • http://theblindspotsofgod.wordpress.com lawyermommy

    I did not have an opportunity to watch the complete funeral.

    I have always admired Ted Kennedy even at the time when I was not on his “team”. Over the years, as I became more of a “Centrist”, I came to appreciate his “live and let live” position and particularly enjoyed seeing his commitment to the State that elected him Senator.

    Like every man he was not infallible but I believe that in this case his GOOD was definitely not “interred with the bad”. He made a massive difference to politics in Washington. Always true to what he believed in. Much admired always.

    I pray he rests in perfect peace. May someone else like him of similar position and clout have the courage to be as forthright and bold as Ted Kennedy was in his life time.

    http://theblindspotsofgod.wordpress.com/

  • ifthethunderdontgetya

    Over the years, as I became more of a “Centrist”…
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    I’ve got a question for you, or 3 even, lawyermommy. Specifically, about being a centrist over these last 8 years.
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    Invade Iraq, or not invade Iraq? What was the centrist position, and is that still one you feel comfortable with now?
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    Torture, or don’t torture? What was the centrist position, and is that still one you feel comfortable with now?
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    Prosecute Bush-Cheney officials for secretly breaking our treaty obligations and making torture an American value, like Baseball, Hotdogs, and Apple Pie™, or else give them a pass? What is the centrist position?
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    P.S. I suppose you can guess where I come down on these. But I’ve seen you post here before, and I would appreciate your thoughts.
    ~

  • ifthethunderdontgetya

    Happy trails, sacredh. I took a break, now I’m back. On weekends and latenights, at least. Sometimes, also!
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    We’ll keep a light on.
    ~

  • kathy

    well said.

  • kathy

    I’ll miss you sacredh. Thanks for letting us know you’re taking a break. Hope you’re back soon.

  • yutsano

    Smooth sailing Sacred, if need be we’ll send the Pirate Wench after you to guide you to safer waters.

  • 53_3

    I’ll miss you too, sacred. Happy tweeting!
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    Keep blazing a path to well, uh, wherever it is you’re blazing a path to, we will follow without question!
    .
    Sort of…

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