Madelyn Dunham

Did not live to see the election:

Statement from Barack Obama and Maya Soetoro-Ng on the Death of Their Grandmother

It is with great sadness that we announce that our grandmother, Madelyn Dunham, has died peacefully after a battle with cancer.  She was the cornerstone of our family, and a woman of extraordinary accomplishment, strength, and humility.  She was the person who encouraged and allowed us to take chances.  She was proud of her grandchildren and great-grandchildren and left this world with the knowledge that her impact on all of us was meaningful and enduring.  Our debt to her is beyond measure. Our family wants to thank all of those who sent flowers, cards, well-wishes, and prayers during this difficult time.  It brought our grandmother and us great comfort.  Our grandmother was a private woman, and we will respect her wish for a small private ceremony to be held at a later date.   In lieu of flowers, we ask that you make a donation to any worthy organization in search of a cure for cancer.

UPDATE: The campaign tells us that Madelyn Dunham died at home last night in Hawaii, which was between 4 and 5 a.m. today in Florida, where Obama was. Obama found out around 8 a.m. He has carried on through his campaign events today without mentioning it. However, I did witness a poignant moment just a few minutes ago, when Obama stopped by unannounced at his Charlotte, N.C., campaign office and made some calls to undecided voters. One of the voters to whom he was talking apparently brought up the issue of elder care, at which point Obama–whose manner until this point had been upbeat and teasing–suddenly looked deflated and sad. He turned his back on the press pool that was recording all of this, and told the voter: “Obviously, this is happening in my own family. … My grandmother stayed at home all the way through.”*

UPDATE:

ARLINGTON, VA — Today, U.S. Senator John McCain and Mrs. Cindy McCain issued the following statement on the passing of Barack Obama’s grandmother, Madelyn Dunham:

“We offer our deepest condolences to Barack Obama and his family as they grieve the loss of their beloved grandmother. Our thoughts and prayers go out to them as they remember and celebrate the life of someone who had such a profound impact in their lives.”

*Full and corrected quote after the jump.

As transcribed from ABC audio, this is what Obama told the voter to whom he talked by phone from his Charlotte, N.C., campaign office:

5:15 08
OBAMA: “Can I say this? Obviously this is happening in my own family, and in addition to social security and Medicare one of the things that I think is really important is exercising  home care a lot more (Obama turns his back away from cameras and audio becomes muzzled) My grandmother was able to stay in a home all the way until recently. Because she just had someone who could come in once and a whole (inaud) and that ends up saving a lot more money. Not only does it end up saving money for the state but (inaud) it’s a lot better for people like yourself and my grandmother. (iaud) who don’t want to feel constraints.

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  • Joe Bftsplk

    Noooo!!!!!
    How sad. How difficult.

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    Sorry for the cross post Karen, am working to take it down. JNS

  • JJ

    So sad.

  • Andy from MA

    That’s a shame…I was hoping she might hold on until Wednesday. No one can fault Obama for taking the time to say goodbye and traveling to HI.

  • alisonrose

    Oh, how sad. She was so close! I can only imagine how very, very proud she must have been of her daughter’s son.

    I wish I could have told her myself what a wonderful job she did raising both her daughter and grandson. Go in peace, Madelyn Dunham.

  • http://pourmecoffee.blogspot.com pourmecoffee

    Ugh. I’m sure it will deepen his sense of purpose, and remind him of the best in himself. I remember when my Dad died; it’s a moment of sadness, but also uncomplicated clarity.

  • ghostlawns

    And cue the “compassionate conservatives at redstate:

    While it is never a great thing for someone to have died, I predicted a month ago that this would happen, right before the election.

    Is it coincidence that he was just there?

    Sympathy vote anyone?

    These people have no soul.

  • pierogielunaire (formerly superterrificdelegate)

    This makes me so sad. I was really hoping she would hang on through the election. This one’s for you, Madelyn!

  • teresakopec

    So sad. I wish she could have lived one more day. Just awful.

  • dunedweller

    She will always be with him. Godspeed Mrs. Dunham.

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    KT,
    .
    I know that this isnt your job and its definitely not something I can demand of you but I hope someone takes the time to call out all of those a$$hole right wing radio heads like Rush Limbaugh who tried to imply that Obama was not going home to see his Grandmother but rather for some nefarious purpose
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    I am so heart broken for him because I know he wanted her to see just how far he had come with her help. But I also know she will be smiling down from above tomorrow night as he his announced as the new POTUS. He is definitely in my prayers.

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  • usesherbrain

    What a sad day for the Obama family. This will be a bittersweet time for them, regardless of the outcome of tomorrow’s election. Hopefully, he’ll be able to function this week, if only to give honor to her memory.

  • nocalgal

    My condolences to the Obama family. She must have been an extraordinary woman. The evidence is in her grandson. She and her husband and daughter had great courage at a time in our nation, when courage was needed. And the unconditional love she had for Mr. Obama is evident in every way.

    Rest in peace Mrs. Dunham. And thank you.

  • jarais

    Oh, no. So sad!

  • Tom in The Swamp

    Speaking of heartless bastards, the RNC (through the California Republican Party) chose today of all days to file suit against Obama for taking the campaign plane to visit his dying grandmother.
    .
    These people are simply pure evil.

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  • Joe Bftsplk

    Think how the weight of the world will feel on Barack Obama’s shoulders tomorrow night.

  • bitterpill8

    This is so sad. My wife burst into tears and is sitting alone totally dejected. I see this and and end and tomorrow as a beginning. No doubt, from some wonderful place Sen Obama’s Grandfather, Grandmother and Mother will look down with pride. I don’t know what happened to his Father, and assume he is also resting in peace. Total gloom in Casa Bitterpill8.

  • jarais

    Tom,
    They’ll get what’s coming to them tomorrow.

  • Annie

    So sad. May God Bless her.

  • ivb3016

    Your update really brought the tears.
    .
    Thank you as always for your writing.

  • mchampion

    I think she knew her work here on earth was done.

  • sgwhiteinfla

    KT
    .
    Thanks for the update
    .
    This is one of those times where getting some inside information makes you feel so connected to the situation. I wish there was a place to send him personal condolences not in material things but just in terms of words of encouragement. Any ideas on that KT?

  • sue_n

    My heart breaks for him and his family for their loss, particularly with everything so close within his grasp. I can only imagine how deeply he hoped she would live long enough to witness his triumph. Still, my faith tells me she is watching and that some part of her will always be with him.

    And (please God) after tomorrow, some part of her will be with us all through her grandson, our president.

  • Karen Tumulty

    KT here–

    Ivb: There’s a bit of a disagreement among the pool reporters here on the bus as to his precise words to the caller, though the gist of the exchange is clear. It was hard to hear, because he turned his back to us. The network guys are hoping for clearer audio when we get to our next stop. I will adjust my update if necessary.

  • Karen Tumulty

    KT here–

    Ivb: There’s a bit of a disagreement among the pool reporters here on the bus as to his precise words to the voter he called, though the gist of the exchange is clear. It was hard to hear, because he turned his back to us. The network guys are hoping for clearer audio when we get to our next stop. I will adjust my update if necessary.

  • sharkfin

    So sad and tragic that none of her parents and parent-surrogates are still around to witness and experience the heights with which their love have brought him up.
    but then it is said that, “PARENTS ARE LIKE MOSES.” “They prepare the promised land for him but they themselves do not reach it.
    still it would have been great if she waited til Wednesday morning.
    Rest in peace, and congratulations, Maam.

  • http://pourmecoffee.blogspot.com pourmecoffee

    KT – Is he with the girls? If you haven’t been through it, it can surprise you how devastating a loss like that is to kids that age. They don’t always show it, and it can come in waves.

  • Amy

    May her memory be a blessing.

  • nibblybits

    Watching MSNBC since the announcement and NONE of the McCain surrogates have mentioned condolences. Just light right into Joe the Plumber and spreading the wealth. Makes me sick.

  • Dee in Columbia MD

    nibblybits — I was just signing on to comment on the same thing. How odd that it hasn’t occurred to these peple how it makes them look. I couldn’t imagine that if the situation was reverse that Democrats would not have been more sensitive.

  • Jacuda1

    This is heartbreaking. After all the sacrifices she made on Barack Obama’s behalf, she doesn’t get to see him elected as President by a day. Its sad to note that all the people who were very instrumental in raising this fine American are not going to be around to witness where their decisions and actions many years ago would ultimately lead.

  • http://shadypolitics.com Kenneth Sutton

    How sad, very sad. The worst part is that it was only 1 day away from her grandson’s election.

  • sgwhiteinfla

    Dee and Nibbly,
    .
    I had heard she passed from a friend of mine on the way home. Then when Tweety came on at 5 est I missed the beginning but nobody was talking about it so I had to look it up online. Then I went back to watching TV and I was just taken aback that none of the McCain flacks offered anything in the way of condolences. Just shows you their true character yet again.

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  • fourlegsgood

    This is incredibly sad.

    I hope she was aware enough to know what the polls are.

  • jarais

    Thanks for the updates, KT.

  • ivb3016

    KT, for me it wasn’t the precise quote of what he said, but the picture your writing conveyed.
    .
    However, I did witness a poignant moment just a few minutes ago, when Obama stopped by unannounced at his Charlotte, N.C., campaign office and made some calls to undecided voters. One of the voters to whom he was talking apparently brought up the issue of elder care, at which point Obama–whose manner until this point had been upbeat and teasing–suddenly looked deflated and sad. He turned his back on the press pool that was recording all of this, and told the voter:
    .
    Thank you again.

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  • brown91

    I’m so sorry to hear of his loss, she has went on to a better land knowing her grandson will change the world.
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  • xtsam

    I am sure she is always proud of his grandson no matter what. Peace.

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  • cfukara

    KT:
    ” .. Obama–whose manner until this point had been upbeat and teasing–suddenly looked deflated and sad. ..”
    Familiar.
    I feel for him.
    I wonder whether his sister Auma is around or will be around Tuesday night.

  • Lisa Franco

    She will be watching from heaven the legacy her grandson and the “Change” he is making in our nation.
    Our prayers our with you Senator Obama~

  • http://yahoo REV JOYCE L .RAMSAY

    my heartfelt condolences,my prayers are with obama and his family at
    this time.

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